Even Now

Even now: 

even now, with over 30 years of commitment to forgiveness, and I'm still amazed at how often I lapse in my practice. There are still times, many really, when I play a subtle game of hierarchy, making slight distinctions in my grievances and resentments. Mostly this occur at a subconscious level, hidden until they arrive with a fresh flash of disturbance. 

but not always, 

as there are some hurts that I still seem to cherish for the gift of sorrow that they offer. These are the ones that give me an identity as a long suffering martyr at the hands of others. The refrain is -"you did this to me" and I believe it so deeply that it becomes a reality to me, a psychic scar that I show proudly to the world. Of course these can be subtle too, lying just beneath the surface of current thoughts until the right trigger comes to mind and I can then use it to advantage. 

even as it hurts me. 

so what I see here, finally, is that I've made a special relationship with my wounds, elevated them to highest status so that I can then blame the world for all that hurts me. A Course in Miracles reminds me in Lesson 5 that there are no small upsets, they are all equally disturbing to me peace of mind. Further on it declares that I cannot keep any particular upset and let others go - again, they are all equally disturbing. 

my peace of mind depends on forgiveness.

and that means everything.

I love how one lesson will sometimes and so often encompass the entire Course. There are no small upsets. Period. And if I get this, and I'm so, so close, then I am completely there, all the way to heaven, or at least I am in practice. That's the important thing to remember, constantly really, that this isn't a static, one time offering of forgiveness - it's fluid, continuous in its grace, and always available. 

it's a practice, 

even now.

~ 

With love and forgiveness, Eric 

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'Thank you.